Have another cupcake, Sugar.

"I'm fond of saying that "God's love is not a pampering love; God's love is a perfecting love,"
God doesn't say, "Here, have some more cupcakes. Take the one with the extra icing."
That's not our God. Your grandma, maybe, but not God."

excerpt from When Life is Hard by James MacDonald
as found on In The Life of a Busy Woman, my friend Cheryl's blog.